About Joe Follette, Jr.

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist | Over 25 Years of Experience

Joe Follette, Jr., M.Div., LMFT

Joe Follette, Jr. is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 25 years of experience providing therapy and coaching for individuals of all ages. In 1999, he founded Agape Family & Group Therapy in Huntsville, Alabama, which later transitioned to Lifestyle Therapy & Coaching in 2009. Before becoming a licensed marriage therapist, Joe served as a pastor in several Seventh-day Adventist churches and as a Chaplain Candidate in the US Army Reserves. He also served as the resident director of the freshman men's dormitory at Oakwood University. Joe holds a Master of Divinity degree from Andrews University and a Master of Science from the University of Southern Mississippi. Joe has led numerous group treatment programs throughout his career, including a state-certified substance abuse rehab program. As an Alabama-licensed Marriage and Family Therapist supervisor, he has trained and mentored therapists.
  • Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Alabama LMFT L214
  • Master of Divinity, Andrews University
  • Master of Science, University of Southern Mississippi
  • Creator of the NORM Transformation System
  • Author of Don't Give Up On Love
  • Telehealth anywhere in Alabama

Personal Life

Joe has five adult children and four grandchildren. In his free time, Joe enjoys golfing and walking his dog. His favorite scripture is Philippians 4:13: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Joe is currently accepting new clients and sees them by telehealth anywhere in Alabama. In-network with Blue Cross Blue Shield of Alabama, BCBS Federal Employee Program, TRICARE, UnitedHealthcare / UMR, Cigna, Aetna and others. We'll verify your benefits before your first session. Self-pay is welcome. You can also use health savings and flex spending accounts.

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Joseph L. Follette, Jr., LMFT

Joseph L. Follette, Jr., LMFT

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Most people don’t struggle in relationships because they don’t care—they struggle because they’re stuck in patterns they can’t see. Read more

You might be having the same conversations, feeling disconnected even when things seem “fine,” or wondering why things aren’t changing despite your effort. The problem isn’t effort. It’s not seeing what’s driving the pattern. I help individuals and couples identify and change the patterns behind their reactions, communication, and connection—so real change can happen.

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Joseph L. Follette, Jr. LMFT

Founder, NeuroSpire Labs & Lifestyle Therapy & Coaching

An ordained minister and licensed marriage and family therapist in practice since 1999, Joseph is the creator of the NORM model — Recognize, Rewire, Reinforce — a framework that turns emotional insight into lasting behavioral change. Through NeuroSpire Labs, he is building technology that makes relational rewiring accessible beyond the therapy room.

Verified by Psychology Today · Licensed by the State of Alabama (L214)
Voted one of the Three Best Rated marriage counselors in Huntsville, AL — five years running