When my wife is having a bad day, she will withhold sex from me. I believe that my needs should be met regardless of what I’ve done to make her mad. Is this a fair stance?
It is a pretty normal for any of us to not feel like having sex when we are not happy with our spouse for some reason. But denying your spouse sex is not the appropriate way to manage your emotions. Sex within a marital relationship is not yours to withhold. When you made the covenant to marry your spouse you virtually gave up the rights to your body. The Bible is clear in 1 Corinthians 7:2-6 where it says
The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality