After studying marriages over 40 years marriage researcher John Gottman concluded that couples tend to argue about the same things their entire marriage. You would think maybe after year 10 couples would begin to realize that the stuff they were arguing about were about the same. Arguing is generally a waste of time and energy. While it is not good to just give up and give in when your partner is clearly in the wrong. Fighting for the right needs to be far more than arguing 24-7 for 40 years straight. The problem with arguers is that they keep pointing the finger at the other. This effectively excuses both from looking at themselves and making the personal changes that are needed for peace and harmony. If you are an arguing couple I encourage you to take the Sizzling Hot Marriage Maker program. You will learn about the proper ways to resolve your differences and create a relationship that is fulfilling and lasting.