I have concluded that much of the conflict between couples boils down to personality types. Different personalities see the world differently. Are you arguing with your spouse over attending social events? Are you in disagreement about how much to talk? Many of the arguments couples experience has to do with what one feels comfortable with over another. It’s our different interpretation of things that can lead to the most vehement arguments. One sees it this way and the other that way.
Be careful to remember that everybody has a right to their own opinion. Be open to another perspective. Especially when it’s a pebble issue. If you can let things go, especially pebble issues, you will enjoy a much more peaceful marriage. Does everybody have to agree with you?
Here’s a great chart that explains the differences between introverts and extroverts:
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It shows you how they see things differently. Think about the two of you. Are you both the same or are you different. Are some of the issues you fight over based on your personality type? Maybe you need to soften up and give your spouse a break. They’re not stupid – just a different personality.
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