One of the worst things a man can experience is a constantly complaining nagging wife. First of all nagging sends the message “you are not good enough for me”. Secondly you are pushing your man away from you rather than pulling him to you. If his behaviors are truly unacceptable then you need to let him know that you can’t continue the relationship with the behaviors he is displaying. Give him some type of time frame to make changes. If his bad behaviors are not so significant to require you to leave him, then stop badgering him about them. Spend more time focusing on your behaviors. If you need to leave then develop a plan to do so. If you want to change your man the best way to do that is to love on him. That’s right! Love changes people. Most of all it will change you.